Heartbroken - you made me cry! Grace - like you I always try to see and believe the best in everyone. I'm hoping you're right. Kaffe - I have never said anything bad about H to S. S has asked me why I've been upset in the past after getting off the phone with H and I've said it's bit frustrating all this change. But I try to say it's the situation and not the person. H did tell me the weekend of the 28th he detected a bit of H vs Mom from S. H just laughed it off and moved on.
So just got a text from H: I plan to come by your place tomorrow I would think around noon to drop off these dining chairs and a shovel (I told him I would buy my own!)
I'll grab some things out of the garage (he still has stuff in there)
Can't stay long as I have a very busy weekend (I don't want/need to hear/or care about YOUR busy weekend)
but I was thinking I might hang out with you guys one night next week? If you have the time, and want me too? (ARGH right back to his pattern of....I don't know...but being a bit weird about maybe you don't want to hang out with me and I understand if I'm prying. Wanting reassurance. I don't know where this attitude is coming from. He did it on Wednesday and it upset me but I didn't let him see it and it's happening now)
Not really sure how to reply. We will probably have already left by the time he gets here. I don't want to rearrange my day. I feel like he really needs stuff out the garage for his "very busy weekend" and is wrapping that up in the I'm bringing you a shovel and dining chairs.
I'm not sure what to say about him coming over. It's fine. It's what we do. He was already coming by twice next week to take S to appointments.
