Did you make a decision to have a family bed or did this just happen?
labug There was never a formal discussion about it so you can say I just happened. I am trying to figure out in my head how to detach and still be in the same house with W and 3 kids who have something going all the time, and they don't know about our sitch. I asked W when she dropped the bomb how financially she was gonna make it, she had no idea... Neither one of us can afford house alone.asked if she talked to L , her response was do we even need one? (really!!). This women would research a water-pic for 3 days but best I can tell has done zero on how this will effect our kids and family.Been almost a month and she has showed no interest in discussing our R, and thus far I have not pressured her on it.
