One thing on my mind. She has not had her ring on for about 5 to 6 months. Should I still keep mine on or take it off. How might this affect her?
Do NOTHING to get her to react a certain way or to see how it affects HER.
TAKE NO ACTION TO GET A REACTION...this is about YOU working on YOU, only.
She has to believe that marriage to you, from this day forward
can be better/different than before...
or she won't reconcile..
So you have to demonstrate that improvement, by changing YOU.
NOT CHANGING HER... YOU HAVE NO CONTROL OVER HER -AT ALL-
SO DROP THAT EFFORT NOW...it's a waste of time and
makes you miss the opportunity of a life time now, which is for you to become a man only a fool would leave.
So, how would marriage to you be different?
What are YOU working on in yourself to make that improvment a reality?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
