Maybe I'm missing something here. Why are you leaving the house if SHE's unhappy?

My W initially told me the same thing. I looked at her incredulously and told her that I was perfectly fine at home and that if she was the one who was unhappy then she should leave. She did and I'm glad I stayed.

While you can't control what she wants, you sure as hell can control what you do.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER