DG, Tis true that there are alot of new faces. Sometimes when I get on here.. it breaks my heart.
But then again... if I hadn't come here, I wouldn't be a stronger better Val... so take the good with the bad.
I'm so glad to hear that you have dropped the rope. I have too for the most part.. there are days when I want to pick it up.
But I remember that unless the I let go of the rope, I won't be living. My best foot forward is one without restraints and without worry of my w's actions and behaviors.
If you need us during the D process, we are here...
...otherwise I wish you all the very best. I know your heart will one day be healed and ready to let someone take care of it once again.
((( )))
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
