I haven't read your posts, so I don't know your sitch, but I'm glad that you are at peace with the decision to move on. I am also struggling to determine if I can fight for a relationship with someone who is so willing to let go of our M.

I love my H and always will, but I know that I need someone who is as committed to our M as I am. I'm not sure if he'll ever be that way, so I'm taking it day by day until I decide if I can continue DBing. It's good for me to see that it is possible to drop the rope and still be okay.


M36 XH34
M-5 T7
4/11 H confused
5/11 ILYB
6/11 OW discovered
7/11 I move out, OW over
5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file
9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3
3/13 H/OW break up
H files 4/13
D 6/18/13