But here's a thought. Get professional advice. Your H won't like that most likely, but it's important to set the emotion aside and get it anyway. You need to protect yourself and assume he will leave.
Keep your expectations to zero. If you have none, you won't be disappointed. If it works out that he changed his mind, then great. Deal with it then. If not, then you won't be tied into a 30 yr contract with him without some protection. That would be really bad, trust me.
This is strictly financial. Another angle is that he feels guilty and wants to do something to assuage his guilt. It could just be about him only.. Since you don't know, don't worry about it. Let things play out as they play out without expectations and don't take any more risk than you can accept.
My $0.04 worth.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
