Looks like your feral cat made a visit...lol...but realized what he was doing later...W has done this soooooo many times....its like they go "oh, wait just a minute here...I am nor supposed to do this, spouse is why I am unhappy, spouse is wrong for me", etc, etc.
Crazy and petty (toothbrushes touching....ewwwwwwwww)...yup.
All the fun us committed, responsible people are missing...
Just laugh...its all I can do most times anymore when I get this sort of juvenile behavior...
Hey, at least he showed some interest sensually, I wouldn't mind that at all from W atm. This "meeting own needs" thingy is less than optimal after so much time.
T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm