Being too busy and having too much stress can be a sure killer to intimacy. I'm not just talking about sex, but emotional closeness.
Your W found the time, however, to cheat on you. So tell me, what did she get from this OM that you were not giving her? What part of the day/night did she contact OM or spend time with him?
Sometimes, an A is some people's "escape" from reality and all life's stresses, but an A takes time out of life just as a M does.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
