Ok.... so I'm suspicious..... and well I don't want to be.... maybe this is part of his cycle, I'm sure it's hoping too much to think he could be coming to the end of craziness.... H came into the bathroom while I was in the shower this morning.... wanted some....ahh....attention, shall we say..... and then he made me an egg sandwich for breakfast..... very very strange..... Last night he also let his door open for awhile, I thought he may actually leave it open all night but he didn't..... and today before he left he closed it tightly, and his toothbrush still has migrated from the toothbrush holder (heaven forbid our toothbrushes touch!) to the far side of his sink...... Perhaps I over think..... or am used to crazy, bad stuff happening.... who knows......
Anyway, yesterday's lawyer consult went well. She said any money he spends as far as retirement, etc he will have to prove it went toward something related to the marriage.... and if he files I don't have to do anything if I don't want to, in PA you can wait 2 years, so at least in that respect I have some sort of choice. I don't think it was worth the $200 consult fee.... but hey, I just wanted to know if all this craziness continues and he doesn't face his issues am I gonna get screwed out of what I am entitled to, so I got that answered. I hate to be like that, and it's not about the money but I don't want the rest of my world turned upside down, he's down enough of that!
