Ok, this has me scratching my head. Just received another email from my H (he sent it from work since that address isn't blocked) regarding refinancing. It's been several weeks since I've heard from him about it, but apparently he's still putting a lot of energy into it. The gist of it is this, the rate is great and he says WE will save quite a bit right now. The downside is the loan has PMI, but when that goes away in five years WE will save X. What??? Is this the same man who filed for D? I don't see us doing anything in five years. Is this an indication that he's thinking about reconciling or what? His payments to me won't change, not even while the divorce is pending, so why is he putting so much effort into this? He's a smart guy, especially when it comes to finance (that's his background) so he knows that unless we are together he doesn't benefit. He also left me a message giving me a heads up about his email saying not to fret, it's good news. Then he went on to explain what was in the email, using WE throughout. I need to respond, but not right away. After so many days with NC I have finally been able to laugh again after almost six months. I don't want to backslide. Also, it's in the back of my mind that his lease is up next month and I've been wondering what he plans on doing.
