LBS work = Nothing the LBS does will matter during the MLC to directly affect positive change in M, let alone the MLCer.
The one other point that I might clarify is that on the suface what KD wrote may be correct however the journey of the LBS and MLC'er are tied together. Those who refuse to make their changes who continue to beg, plead and cry will cause the MLC'er to STICK in the crisis. We must get on with our lives and live "as if" they are never coming back. Adhere to DB principles and rules as that is what will help to lead them through their crisis. So no matter what kind of crisis they are in the LBS must DO the same thing. In a nut shell, stop pursuit, work on self and let the other person "twist in the wind and crack their heads". Nothing that we do will speed up the crisis but we can slow it down.
What the DB coaches, 25yearsmlc and others preach is what works. That I am sure
