Exactly--once LBS learn their own worth, learn to love themselves fully, and break their bondage to everything that's been holding them back from past failures, they'll respect themselves enough not to allow themselves to be hurt any further by the WAS. And THAT is when the WAS will realize what they risk losing--because up until that point, there was no real risk, as the LBSer hadn't made all the necessary changes yet. But, on both sides, people can only change at the speed they're capable of.
