Amen, Starsky. I wish I had listened to the wisdom on these boards the first time around. I was so desperate to have my H back that I practically rolled out the red carpet for him, expecting were little in return smile

M:12yr
06/11:IDLYA
07/11:Moves out
08/11:PA disc(began in May)
09/11:Moves w OW
10/11:Breaks up w OW;gets apt
11&12/11: Touchngo w me
1/12: Comes home-PA resumes
2/12: PA disc; PA ends
Today: Piecing