WH, I haven't posted to you but I've been reading your threads. All I can say is you're a better woman than I am. I don't know how you're doing it.
I was thinking to myself what I would do. I think if it were me (remember, I'm not like you,) I would do everything I possibly could for him until the divorce was signed, and then go completely dark. I would do everything I could to make his fall from the cliff as high and long as possible.
But that's just me.
I just saw this post, Crazyville, and I wanted to let you know that your idea is completely my intention. H doesn't realize it yet, but life for him is not going to be a bed of roses once D is final and we are separated. He has no clue how much cake eating he is doing right now. I do everything around the house, except the outdoor work. I pay the bills, arrange the schedules, take care of laundry, groceries, carting kids, dinners, baths, etc. His head will just spin.
Not to mention OW lives over an hour away and he has been keeping himself occupied tiling her kitchen, buying her shoes, buying her groceries, even paid her car registration, and he even bought her shampoo and conditioner!!!! WTF!!! Not to mention she has two children and with our two children and with him paying me his money will be slipping through his fingers. I can already see cracks in the foundation. Like I said, God just keeps telling me to be still and wait. But patience is not my greatest virtue.
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"
