Yesterday I decide that I was going to GAL, I still want the M to work. I love her more than ever. But, nothing is working. Time for some space and tough love. I texted her yesterday and said “I respect you very much. You know how I feel about you and this. If you truly think that a D is the best thing, then I will not fight you.
Welcome to the board.
You have given yourself good advice above, start to put it into place, and get off of the rollercoaster. You will need to learn how to give her space, she wants a divorce and you both need to learn what that means. Start right now, do not wait until after the divorce.
DETACH. Believe none of what she says and half of what she does. Have NO EXPECTATIONS. Take care of yourself, breathe, eat, sleep, exercise.
You are on moderation right now on the forum. SO post in small frequent posts until you get off of it.
