WH, I haven't posted to you but I've been reading your threads. All I can say is you're a better woman than I am. I don't know how you're doing it.
I was thinking to myself what I would do. I think if it were me (remember, I'm not like you,) I would do everything I possibly could for him until the divorce was signed, and then go completely dark. I would do everything I could to make his fall from the cliff as high and long as possible.