The difference is your focus. The baby steps you're watching for are the result of something you're doing that's working. If what you're doing isn't working, do something different. Your focus is on you and what you're doing, and not on the progress of your sitch.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.