i posted you way back when and then i just had to stop for the the reasons OT wrote. you only wanted to hear what you wanted to hear..and had a reason/excuse for everything else.
way back when it was mentioned about the verbal abuse.. you minimized the effect it had on your wife but at the same time you admitted to being drunk and couldn't remember what you had said. and even after you had separated w/ your wife.. some of your posts clearly indicated that you were still verbally abusing her by your choice of words or her when things didn't go they way you had expected. yes.. maybe she did aggravate the situation by using abuse language herself but guess what? verbal abuse + verbal abuse doesn't negate the fact that it's happening. it just means you were both being verbally abusive.
i still hear a lot of me me me. i did this for her.. i did that for her.. i deserve this.. i deserve that.. go back and read some of your earlier threads.
and this whole thing about this new woman.. who is gorgeous.. and much younger.. why does younger mean better? no strings attached? no baggage? maybe you're thinking.. ok BF.. you're just a bitter 37 yr old because you're not in your 20's anymore. that's fine. think that if you will. i'll have to agree w/ OT and this old bitter woman doesn't believe you are a man only a fool would leave. but that doesn't mean it has to stay that way.
i'm not even going to go into the kids issue. maybe another day.
wish you luck.
Me:38.. H:33. Two beautiful kids S:6 D:3 M:8.. together for 11. Bomb dropped:10/17/11 Separated:11/07/11
