NRTS (Not Repairable at This Station)

[BeingMe]

Oh, and remember, you earned that alimony. You made a home for your STBX, are the mother of his children, moved several homes and supported him in his career (this is what I realized about me). Just that alone earns you a decent pension. I bet you did that and more. What other woman can compare to that? Certainly not that weirdo OW. And, I think she knows you're a better person than she is. That's why she's trying to press your buttons, spying on you to see if you do have faults (which all of us do).

Get the separation agreement, including the finances sorted out ASAP. The sale of the house can come later. IMHO.