Originally Posted By: labug
Don't have the conversation.


Good advice. Had the talk. Honestly, I think I do a lot better than I did 6 or 9 months ago. I never felt anything other than calm.

She's upset. That isn't going to be my problem any more.

She *really* does not appreciate me. Words bend and have no meaning around her. If I change my mind on something, then she says that I lied. Often it's not even changing my mind, but clarifying my views based on context.


- All for the kids -
Me:34, W:35
M:7, T:13
S6, D3 + my D15 from previous marriage
July 2011 "I think I need a separation"
W filed D September
Currently living apart - she has the house, I rent a room