Hello, WAW. Is anyone there?

[AlwaysTrying]

When I say I am detached - I think I am. I am ready for her to make this mistake if she chooses.

I am ready to give my lawyer another $3500 and another $3500 after that most likely so we can do this. I am ready to take charge of my situation and DO this divorce.

I can accept that if that is the choice she makes.

But if there is some possibility that I can impress on her the idea that I'm not a brick wall and that a little more patience is good for everyone... I have to do that.