"I just have to hope that distance will make her change."
Nothing can make her choose to change accept herself. Until she actually takes responsibility for her actions and her own internal issues, nothing will change.
"She feels that last time when i saved things. I set her up and made her feel guilty."
Classic example. You didn't "make" her feel guilty. She felt guilty because she did something wrong. Simple as that. She's trying to shift all the blame onto you.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
