Half way through xW's visit, and I am more confused than ever. Either she is heartlessly using me as a doormat, or she is confused as to what she wants. I am waiting for the shoe to drop any day now. I am being relaxed and the best I can be...no stress, no pursuit, no drama....just being a good guy, and treating her with respect and admiration as I always have (OK, so there were times I lost sight....)

Who knows where this is going? Must keep a PMA.....

Is this as bizarre as I think it is? Anyone else's XW come to visit for 10 days, including a visit to my mother this weekend?

Just confused and concerned, I guess. Don't like feeling like a fool....


H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012