Point taken, Starsky. Next time I will label my posts: Insight only, venting only, journaling....

I admit, I am defensive, Cyrena. My D said that one thing irritating about me is that I have an answer to everything...something like a know it all attitude.. and it IS one of the things that I need to change, thats true.

I did try not to react but after several posts I sort of lost it.....

As for H, I am no going to feed him ideas, or tell him to do things a certain way. It has to come from him, his own decision.

Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18
Bomb: 6/26/10
EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ???
11/5/11 Retrouvaille
Finally piecing....
Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go