Pam,
You shouldn't feel bad about any of the stuff that happened because you came through it all so well.

You and H are working on things and that makes you both winners.

Please forgive yourself and move forward.

My thread is in the Hopefulness forum.
Under Knowledge Is Power or KIP

anyway my H's E/A P/A has been over for almost a year.
It took him awhile to let go.
Then I of course had some problems with residual or delayed anger at all that went on.
Thats what I get for being so nosy!!!

We are doing extremely well.
Better than we have in many many years.

You have some great buddies here!

Kim aka KIP


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