Quote: I guess all I can really do is be as nice as possible if he is around, and he can see the changes for himself.
By George you’ve got it!
As for the funeral dilemma… If it were my dilemma I’d do this. Ask H if he wants to go, his presence should be up to him. If he says he does, great. If not, then you’re better off. Whether he agrees to go or doesn’t, Pattie has the right idea. Pay your respects while competing with the wallpaper. Don’t be too known, and if OM does nab you be cool and polite and walk off. I would also make sure the flowers you send are from you AND H because then it links you as a couple and makes up for his non-appearance if he doesn’t go.
"It is not easy to find happiness in ourselves, and it is not possible to find it elsewhere."
--Agnes Repplier, writer and historian
