Little more history.W and I are high school sweethearts and have never been apart (seperated) from one another in 28 yrs.Married 11yrs befor first child.One of the things that came out when she dropped the "bomb" was that she thought I resented our kids.That they were the most important things (I agree)to her and she would do anything for them. I have on occasion complain about have in to drive them to practices and things (4 to 5 days a week)every week, but I certianly dont resent my children! I am the parent who disiplins more often, and she thinks im to hard on them sometimes.We actully get all kind of comments on how well behaved they are, when we are out, they also do excellent in school. I have been taking a more laid back approch to that since it was brought to my attention.ML were never big issue for most part alright, but that being said having 3 kids in the span of 4 yrs, 2 of which spleep with us, i would have liked more alone time with W.
I am more laid back than W (lazy is how she put it) W is very strong willed, me not so much.
