often, it is tolerance... or perhaps better, forgiveness and acceptance...
I'm not sure Alamo is a threat to his son... although I want to believe he is in no way a threat to his son...
His W is allowing someone that she is threatening with court action using what she considers provable risk... and yet lets alamo spend time alone with his son...
If she truly believes he is a threat, she should use every available resource to prevent his access to their son...
otherwise, she does not truly believe he is a threat and is only using HER threats to possibly manipulate alamo or otherwise to manipulate the courts to "prove she is right"...
