I suppose writing a letter would do no good. I didn't want to be accusational, I just wanted to apologise for not making him (Pattie, it's the FIL) feel comfortable in my house. I was having a hard time with it, though, because part of me wants to explain WHY I did that, but then it just turns into me blaming him, which is not the direction I want to go. I guess all I can really do is be as nice as possible if he is around, and he can see the changes for himself. This will be VERY difficult for me! But, hey, who said this DBing was easy???

Here's today's dilemna:
The father of a close friend of mine died the other day. I will have to go to the Funeral home this weekend. OM will most definately be there. UGH! I don't want to run into him. BUT, I need to do this for my friend. I want H to go too, but I don't want him to run into OM either. I think that the fight that would start could result in the messy result of the casket being tipped over or something! Oh, that's horrible! And, not at all possible. My H is built like a truck (works out constantly), but would never fight with anyone. He has more self-control (well, except for when other women are involved! ) than anyone I know.