Well, it's 11 months since h said he wanted to separate (6/15/11) and he wanted to sign papers making it official the next day, but nothing has ever been signed. So I expect next month to get interesting, and I figured that would be on this thread, hence the title.

Thank you WHG, I do consider myself to be a very strong person. It was funny that in counseling near the beginning I mentioned that and h said he did not see me that way. To me, it's a large part of my identity! Anyway, it was all about learning that other people have a different reality.

Rick I believe there is white wine involved. Always makes the cooking more fun too!

Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.