Your last post on your last thread made perfect sense to me. If I put things in the back seat I can be happy too. Unfortunately post-bomb they have a way of clawing themselves back into the front seat. Maybe the A/D's help with that. I took Lorazepam when things were at their worst, but I didn't feel it helped that much and I was paranoid about the fact that it can be addictive.

So if you are one year in, what happens now? Do you just wait to see what happens, or are you going to confront H about his plans? Was there an official start to the separation where something was filed?

What is your road forward?

Accuray

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015