I think that our WAS can sense when we have truly let them go and only then can they be free enough to choose to re-engage.
I think you're so right about this! I feel like when I was starting to think about life w/o H, that is was about the same time that he started to come around.
Even just a few days ago he said "I feel like if I left today, you'd be just fine without me." I don't want to "need" him and want to be "just fine" on my own, because things are still very shaky. But at the same time, he wants to be needed. So, I need to figure out how to make him feel "needed".
