SAIS - How have things been post-mother's day for you? Are you seeing any of the positives continue?
They have remained positive. We have been communicating a little more frequently, she is making more eye contact, and their is just a much different more positive energy coming from her towards me.
My thought process is very similar to yours in not escalating anything and simply mirroring her. It is very enjoyable but their are also concerns.
I was starting to get to a point where every now and then I would envision a life w/o being m to her and would find myself excited about the future posibilities. I had not ever experienced this before and it was a little confusing.
I think that our WAS can sense when we have truly let them go and only then can they be free enough to choose to re-engage.
On one hand I sense my w may have realized that I may not wait around forever and she may be open to the possibility of re-engaging to see where it leads.
And on the other hand, I could strictly be in "The Friend Zone". Maybe that is whats best for us and our kids but I still hope for more.
My focus now is to continue to be positive but also be very aware of not letting her actions (now more positive) effect me too greatly.
I still want to remain moving on my path in becoming the person I want to become and this recent improved connection has halted some of that.
