Okay, I think I've caught up wtih you, but I may have missed something. Pamela, we all have wants and needs, and they should be met. OP become OP because everything is new, they validate you, etc. We've all been tempted. Forget about the former Om. He's past, you want to stay focused on your H. Hugs, Pattie
When you can't make a decision because you are torn between your heart and your head, listen to the half with the brain.
