IB,
I'm glad everything is coming together for the graduation and party. You did the right thing in responding to his email. I think you will notice a difference in his attitude now that the dust is beginning to settle. IB, your xh is a very different man from the one you knew. They change completely, right down to the way they talk and write. It's very strange how they become the total opposite along the path of mlc.

You are doing great!


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.