My wife came home today and I was looking at the property market in our area just to get a feel for what is out there as I still believe she will split eventually and honestly if things dont improve I will be the one to leave, I dont want a loveless marriage with no intimacy or affection. Anyway, she reacted interestingly asking me if I was gonna move out and was not real happy. I said I was just preparing in case the slit happened and I only want her to be happy and if she is not with me then we will separate for a time. I also said that I have the right to happiness as well and if she is unable or unwilling to be a part of my happiness then I WILL be the one to go. Felt damn good to turn things around and see how she felt. I believe I am in a much better place thanks mainly to the things I have read on this forum. I know now that if she leaves life will go and in the end it will be her massive mistake
