W told me she is done & doesn't love me anymore-P3

[Snowman]

Thanks for the reply KD.

I will opine that you have done some positive work on getting your self and your emotions in order... but you are still wanting to put blame on something...

I don't want to blame something, I want to understand so I can learn from this.

What have you done and how have you become a man that only a fool would leave?

Valid question. I have been coaching my S's soccer team and games while my W is gone. I have tried to been as nice as possible to my W while making sure not to be a doormat. I have been GALing with friends and working on being more social with coworkers. I have been exercising off and on. I have read working on my marriage without talking about it that has taught me a lot about my situation. I have continued to study stitches on here. I'm going to work on boosting my self confidence as I feel it has been low through this. Thinking about getting my motorcycle license and motorcycle (seems a little MLC but oh well).

Still dealing with lawyers and starting short sale of house along with lots for stress at work as well as my S being very very difficult 3 year old. I'm wore out right now and need some R&R for sure which includes a massage. I need to get positive again and detach more from my situation.