Originally Posted By: LIO
Maybe a little flicker of a lightbulb from him on what he is going to miss?


Or guilt?

I am not trying to squash your hope but I also don't want you to mind read.

I am tellng you though but you won't do it. The best course of action is to detach from him and place no weight in his words.

Get your own life and don't allow him to help you unless it is what he legally should be contributing.

make yourself independent of him and live your life like he is not coming back.

I know this seems counterintuitive but really he wants separation and so he will get it whether you agree or not, so agree.

Throw down your guns.

There will be no one to fight. When he is not fighting you.

Maybe

Maybe

He may see that you are a woman worth pursuing.

Anything short of that. Him coming to you. Is a fools compromise and you will not be satisfied with your bargain.

There is time for compromise and its when he wants to gain back ground on the way back toward you. Until then.

Keep your distance. Protect yourself.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am