I agree with Cadet and Toni: change the locks and have a spare set of keys handy. My sitch went to D. My L advised that I could not keep XW from removing her personal property or locked out of the house as we owned it jointly. That said I could secure my possessions and house if I reasonably believed these things were in jeopardy. It took a while, but eventually the locks were changed.
Peace of mind achieved. The spare set still stands by if needed.
No card for all the reasons Toni outlines. I know from new person’s POV that can seem harsh and counter intuitive. From my POV I can see no good reason and you may find yourself with expectations associated with the gift.
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill
