Today is my yard work day ever since my H left. It is a good day and bad day all wrapped in one. I get a little mad and resentful that I have to do EVERYTHING now (yard work was his ONLY job around the house), but it feels good after I do it!
I have not emailed my H back yet about coming to get his things. I think I will do it tomorrow. I'm going to keep it short and to the point, but make sure my bubbly personality is in there somewhere!
A LOT of people are saying that I've been 'too nice' to him, but really I guess I want to be the bigger person now...no need to hurt or try to hurt him as much as he has hurt me.
It really does urk me though that he said we aren't 'cordial' otherwise and email is the only way we can communicate. Yes, the last two times we saw each other were rough, but those were the ONLY times I blew up at him since all of this started in Feb. Otherwise, our encounters have been okay...oh well.
M: 27 H: 28 T: 8 yrs M: 6 yrs Sep: 2/18/12 (I have no feelings for you!) EA/PA Uncovered: 2/26/12 H introduces OW to his fam: June H moves ALL stuff out: July
