Pma, Hello I just read your thread your posts only. You are doing very very well. No need to blame either affair on anyone. They are over and you and H are definetly headed in the right direction. What an excellent example you both are being to your three boys!!! My H & I are now in our 24th year of marriage. I left him 2 years ago. Then we started piecing on my terms. 7 months of that and he had an affair with a OW who was also having a 6 yr R with a Married friend we had known for ever! Sound like Jerry Springer Yet???
Anyway read all the books you can about R's & Affairs
I'm proud of you both!!!
Kim
"Those who don't read, have no
advantage over those who can't"
Mark Twain