Alot of what you posted is about what "you think" is bothering your W. Did you W ever tell you any of those things? You could very well be wrong on all counts on what's bothering her.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.