I think that i know why. I was in a horrible place and unhappy for a long time time. I was not pulling my weight as a husband. I really wasnt even acknowledging her presence. She was basically this person i was having sex with. I was like a zombie and my relationship with her was not my focus. When i did DB. I learned how unhappy i was and how crappy of a husband i was. I did a 180 and turned it around. She started seeing me again and trying to focus on the relationship but it was great for awhile.

I think my wife is depressed. She was sick for a long time and now she is better. She is working out like crazy and really getting into that aspect of her life. I was able to afford her going down to 30 hours a week. This allowed her more time to work out but now i think she is depressed because isnt making as much money.

I think my wife is looking for something and she cant seem to find it. It may be a new career, maybe a new pair of boobs or maybe a new husband. I dont think she is knows. She had a child when she was really young and i think she feels like she missed out on something.


M:33
W:32
Married 10/28/07
C: B13 G10 (Both from different relationships)
12/30/09 Bomb
Divorce Busted 2/04/10
5/15/12 Bomb 2