I'm with Bestey on the therapy thing. Our C asked to see us separately, H never showed. I quit soon after also, but only because she turned anti-marriage. I decided that if we go again, it will be under H's initiation (which he knows) and I'm sure you can guess how many he's called.
Anyway, this is a positive. You can discuss with her the crazymaking, and she may be able to offer valuable suggestions.
Now Betsey, you really need to stop texting Pam's husband. Otherwise he is going to want to go with us to Denver instead of sitting in front of the X-box texting people with my H! And wouldn't that just ruin all the fun?
PS: I cut off all my hair after the big fiasco too...and now it is actually starting to get long again.
"It is not easy to find happiness in ourselves, and it is not possible to find it elsewhere."
--Agnes Repplier, writer and historian