Wendy, a week after my H left I packed up the rest of clothes and his memorabilia. It's been in the garage ever since. He dug through it a few times when he's been here to pick up the boys. I presume he was looking for his dresser casual shirts for all of the dating he's doing. Well, after they sat in the laundry basket for a while I finally threw them out. I certainly wasn't going to wash them. I don't understand why he doesn't want all of his childhood pictures, etc. He also hasn't asked for any of our family photos or those of the boys. I guess it's all part of rewriting history.