My own thread...my sordid story.

[SadBurl]

Your Sitch is so like mine. H had affair with OW. She then said I had threatened her with phone calls H too was convinced she couldn’t have done such a thing…I was so shocked he would believe her over me.

Again when I asked aboout A and our R he said I was too good for him. I have a university degree he is a carpenter.

Where does this all come from. Do these men think we would actually spend so much of our lives with them if we didn't think they were good enough for us. Did I ever introduce him as my H who really is a loser and not good enough for me. I DONT THINK SO. All I ever did was encourage him with his job tell him he was a great carpenter and thank him for all the things he did around our home.

Unfortunatley my husband is across the water at the moment and using OW house as his base. This makes it hard not to want to call him all the time. You still have contact. (Don't you) Keep DBing. Keep the faith. And even when the pain get so bad think about yourself. You must love yourself before you can love others. I know its hard but as my MIL says No one ever died from waiting. Keep up hope.