Everwhere is walking distance if you have the time

[Drew]

And unfortunately, that made me feel better.

So if she suffers, you feel better?

I keep falling into the LBS trap of imagining how great her life is without me.

And if she's happy, you're miserable?

That means your self-esteem and emotional state are directly a result of your perceptions of her???

You will be healed when you stop giving her that power over you.