I'm so sorry about this. But I want to just give you something that might help in this trial where you have to convict on the evidence "beyond a reasonable doubt".
Does your H lie to you? Is that his modus operandi?
Is it possible that a friend entered him in a dating service online?
The only thing I would like to see here is some honest dialogue between the two of you. It's tough to make good decisions based on partial or untruths.
I know you will be addressing this with your MC tonight.
Big hugs.
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."