Keep your chin up. I appreciate our banter because we are on exactly opposite sides of the coin, if your husband thought like me and my W thought like you something interesting would certainly be happening!
I don't think you have a closed door. I think your husband was terribly hurt, and perhaps he is trying to hurt you out of spite. If you guys were together 7 years and generally happy, the 2 months he has investing in this other woman is probably meaningless, aside from the "new love drunk" he thinks he is experiencing. It is really crazy how are sitch's are diametrically opposed... You actually sound a lot like my W as well.
Don't let yourself get down, and from what I gather from your posts I'm sure you never do. My gut is usually right, I have a feeling that your sitch is going to be one of the ones that has a happy ending.
And I hear you on the texting front, the crickets after the last sent text are always fun... lol That's why the W is going to be hearing crickets for a while.
Enjoy life and be patient, I am as excited to see what happens as you are!
me 38 W 30 T 3 M in 05/2010 Separated 08/2011 Stephchildren (all hers) SS17, SS12, SD8 I filed 8/27, she countered I filed response 9/5 Anxiously waiting on the judge!
